Hi there anyone want to chat?? Everytime I come here no on is on??? whats up with that???

Anyways Hello all....

What time is everyone on???

DESPITE SPAMMER/SCAM online run in 5000 fake profiles which scattered exist on every dating sites... YOU MIGHT BE GLAD TO KNOW THAT record of marriage IN usa in year 2008 is people met online by 25%

Who would think of dating online 10 years ago? Right!

FOX News USA reported a woman who was scammed by Nigerian who use male model photo from FACEBOOK. She was naive and innocent, she did sent 4500US$ in exchange for fake MONEY ORDER. He claimed he worked in import/export company and has 2 kids in Nigeria whom was sicked and he could not cash his money order, so he sent FAKE money money to her in exchange for instant transfer funds! Everyone want to believe that big giant dating site like MATCH.COM may not have spammer and scam, how they were wrong.

I would do sent anyone money in a millions years! Especially such bizarr STORY LIKE THIS!
Sadly some people do simply believe in photos. I do have friends who married from meeting someone online, but they actually met each other in person after a long communication and feel that they have finally found the right person.

SPAMMER/SCAM is known on all dating site, same as your received Fake Paypal Payment, or Fake Bank of American sent to your mail box (JUNK emails)

The best way to keep yourself safe is DON'T believe people online when they talk to you about MONEY becuase it does not make sense.

Please report me on username who SPAM/SCAM on this site....

DISCUSS THIS ISSUE GO TO FORUM OR LEAVE COMMENT HERE

Teach only love for that is what you are.
***** A Course In Miracles

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.
***** Diane Ackerman

There is a law that man should love his neighbor as himself. In a few hundred years it should be as natural to mankind as breathing or the upright gait; but if he does not learn it he must perish.
***** Alfred Adler

Love - THE FEELING - is a fruit of love, the verb.
*****Stephen R. Covey American Speaker, Trainer, Author

Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.
***** Joan Crawford 1904-1977, American Actress

Love touched her heart, and lo! It beats high, and burns with such brave hearts.
***** Richard Crawshaw

Love is the extra effort we make in our dealings with those whom we do not like and once you understand that, you understand all. This idea that love overtakes you is nonsense. This is but a polite manifestation of sex. To love another you have to undertake some fragment of their destiny.
***** Quentin Crisp 1908-, British Author

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
***** Roy Croft

Men and women are not free to love decently until they have analyzed themselves completely and swept away every mystery from sex; and this means the acquisition of a profound philosophical theory based on wide reading of anthropology and enlightened practice.
***** Aleister Crowley 1875-1947, British Occultist

Love is a great beautifier.
**** Louisa May Alcott 1832-1888, American Author

The Impossible Generalized Man today is the critic who believes in loving those unworthy of love as well as those worthy --yet believes this only insofar as no personal risk is entailed. Meaning he loves no one, worthy or no. This is what makes him impossible.
**** Nelson Algren 1909-1981, American Author

Sex alleviates tension. Love causes it.
**** Woody Allen

I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox.
**** Woody Allen

Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.
**** Henri Frederic Amiel 1821-1881, Swiss Philosopher, Poet, Critic

In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person.
**** Margaret Anderson

The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
**** Barbara De Angelis

Love's greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred.
**** Barbara De Angelis

Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible -- it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
**** Barbara De Angelis

There is love of course. And then there's life, its enemy.
**** Jean Anouilh 1910-1987, French Playwright

Well-ordered self-love is right and natural.
**** St. Thomas Aquinas 1225-1274, Italian Scholastic Philosopher and Theologian

Love is made by two people, in different kinds of solitude. It can be in a crowd, but in an oblivious crowd.
*** Louis Aragon 1897-1982, French Poet

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
Jean Anouilh Ardele

Oh, love is real enough; you will find it someday, but it has one archenemy -- and that is life.
*** Jean Anouilh Ardele

Love, by its very nature, is unworldly, and it is for this reason rather than its rarity that it is not only apolitical but anti-political, perhaps the most powerful of all anti-political human forces.
*** Hannah Arendt 1906-1975, German-born American Political Philosopher

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
*** Aristotle

Wicked men obey from fear; good men, from love.
*** Aristotle

In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes.
*** Elizabeth Ashley American Actress

We must love one another or die.
*** W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet

We are not commanded (or forbidden) to love our mates, our children, our friends, our country because such affections come naturally to us and are good in themselves, although we may corrupt them. We are commanded to love our neighbor because our ''natural'' attitude toward the ''other'' is one of either indifference or hostility.
*** W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet

A false enchantment can all too easily last a lifetime.
** W. H. Auden

What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.
** St. Augustine 354-430, Numidian-born Bishop of Hippo, Theologian

Love, and do what you like.
** St. Augustine

Love is the beauty of the soul.
** St. Augustine

God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.
** St. Augustine

What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels.
** St. Augustine

Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.
* * Marcus Aurelius 121-80 AD, Roman Emperor, Philosopher

Not all of us have to possess earthshaking talent. Just common sense and love will do.
* * Myrtle Auvil

And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment.
* * Philippians 1:9

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear.
* * Bible

Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings.
* * Bible

A temporary insanity curable by marriage.
* * Ambrose Bierce 1842-1914, American Author

A friend is someone who knows all about you, and loves you just the same.
* Proverb

Tell me whom you love and I will tell you who you are.
* Houssaye

Happiness is the china shop; love is the bull.
* H. L. Mencken

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
* Jean Anouilh

Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.
* Joseph Addison

I could never love where I could not respect.
* Charlotte Elizabeth Aissé

It is probably not love that makes the world go around, but rather those mutually supportive alliances through which partners recognize their dependence on each other for the achievement of shared and private goals.
* Fred Allen

I was nauseous and tingly all over. . . . I was either in love or I had smallpox.
* Woody Allen

Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind.
* Henri Frédéric Amiel

When we are motivated by goals that have deep meaning, by dreams that need completion, by pure love that needs expressing, then we truly live life.
* Greg Anderson

Ms. Nice Guy - "Tickets to the boxing match? Oh, darling, you shouldn't have!"
Also known as: Whattagal, Precious, one of the boys, My Main Squeeze, Doormat
Advantages: Cheerful, agreeable, kindly
Disadvantages: May wise up someday

Old Yeller - "You spineless good-for-nothing drag-arse no-talent son of a bitch! Can't you see you're making me miserable??"
Also known as: She-Devil, Sourpuss, the Nag, My Old Lady, Warthog from Hell
Advantages: Pays attention to you
Disadvantages: Screeches, throws frying pans

Sickly - "Oh, my head. My head. My feet. My cramps. My cellulite."
Also known as: Whiner, Mewler, Grumpy
Advantages: Predictable Disadvantages: Contagious

The Bosser - "Stand up straight. Put on a different tie. Get a haircut. Change your job. Make some money. Don't give me that look."
Also known as: Whipcracker, The Sarge, Ms. Know-it-all, Ball and Chain, Yes Mom
Advantages: Often right
Disadvantages: Often right, but so what?

Ms. Vaguely Dissatisfied - "I just can't decide. Should I switch my career, goals, home, and hair color?"
Also known as: The Fretter, Worrywart, Typical, Aw C'mon Honey
Advantages: Easily soothed
Disadvantages: Even more easily perturbed

Wild Woman out of Control - "I've got an idea. Lez get drunk an' make love onna front lawn. I done it before. S'fun."
Also known as: Fast Girl, Freewheeler, Goodtime Charleena, Passed Out
Advantages: More fun than a barrel of monkeys
Disadvantages: Unreliable; drives off cliffs

Huffy - "I see nothing humorous in those silly cartoons you keep snickering at."
Also known as: No Fun, Humorless Prig, Cold fish, Chilly Proposition, Iceberg, Snarly
Advantages: Your friends will feel sorry for you
Disadvantages: You will have no friends

Woman from Mars - "I believe this interpretive dance will explain how I feel about our relationship."
Also known as: The Babbler, Spooky Girl, Screwball, Loony, Bad News, Artistic
Advantages: Entertaining, unfathomable
Disadvantages: Will read her poetry aloud

Ms. Dreamgirl - "I am utterly content with you just the way you are, my handsome genius of a boyfriend. I think we must make love like crazed weasels now!"
Also known as: Ms. Right, Goddess, Knockout, Perfection, Gorgeous
Advantages: Funny, intelligent, uninhibited
Disadvantages: Will have nothing to do with you.

Joe Sensitive - "After I wash the dishes, let's cuddle, OK?"
Also known as: Mr. Nice Guy, Family man, Honey, Darling, Soft-boiled Egg, Snugglepup
Advantages: Well-behaved; irons own shirts
Disadvantages: Irritatingly compassionate, wimpy


Old Man Grumpus - "People are stupid. The world can go to hell. Let's stay home and watch TV."
Also known as: Grumbles, Sour puss, Stick-in-the-mud, Old Fogey, Slow Mover, Jerk
Advantages: Stays put; predictable
Disadvantages: Royal pain in the butt



Flinchy - "I--I'm sorry for whatever it was I did."
Also known as: Trembly, Creampuff, Hey you
Advantages: Jumps entertainingly when startled
Disadvantages: Easily spooked; surrenders without a struggle

Bigfoot - "Shut yer trap, I'm thinkin'."
Also known as: Chunk-style, Lummox, Ignoramus, Galoot, the Hulk, Big 'n' Dumb
Advantages: Can tote bales; is easily fooled
Disadvantages: Can break you in half, sweats like a pig

Lazybones - "Zzzzzz"
Also known as: Lucky Dog, Parasite, Bum, Sponge, Snoozebucket, Drug Addict
Advantages: Well rested; easy target
Disadvantages: Unlikely to fulfill your dreams

The Sneak - "Who, me?"
Also known as: Love Pirate, Snake, Rat, Slime, Son of a Bitch
Advantages: May feel pangs of guilt
Disadvantages: May be having time of his life

Ace of Hearts - "After I wash the dishes, let's make love like crazed weasels, OK?"
Also known as: The Sizzler, Handyman, Dreamboat, Casanova, Monster
Advantages: Perpetually aroused
Disadvantages: Perpetually aroused

The Dreamer - "Someday I'm going to be rich and famous. I don't know how, but--"
Also known as: Struggling Artist, Philosopher, Buffoon, Bag of Wind
Advantages: Tells good stories
Disadvantages: Will turn into "Old Man Grumpus"

Mr. Right - "While the servants wash the dishes, let's make love like crazed weasels in my new yacht, ok?"
Also known as: Mr. Perfect, Jim Dandy
Advantages: Answer to a woman's prayer
Disadvantages: Hunted to extinction

I never give my email address away on dating site and always suspect those who do.

Any dating site has spammer and scammer ... Please report spammer and bank or fraud scammer using contact form

- indicate username (spammer)
- your username (who report)
- scam/spam (such as investment, bank, student need money and etc)

Appreciated

Hi there anyone want to chat?? Everytime I come here no on is on??? whats up with that???

Anyways Hello all....

What time is everyone on???

DESPITE SPAMMER/SCAM online run in 5000 fake profiles which scattered exist on every dating sites... YOU MIGHT BE GLAD TO KNOW THAT record of marriage IN usa in year 2008 is people met online by 25%

Who would think of dating online 10 years ago? Right!

FOX News USA reported a woman who was scammed by Nigerian who use male model photo from FACEBOOK. She was naive and innocent, she did sent 4500US$ in exchange for fake MONEY ORDER. He claimed he worked in import/export company and has 2 kids in Nigeria whom was sicked and he could not cash his money order, so he sent FAKE money money to her in exchange for instant transfer funds! Everyone want to believe that big giant dating site like MATCH.COM may not have spammer and scam, how they were wrong.

I would do sent anyone money in a millions years! Especially such bizarr STORY LIKE THIS!
Sadly some people do simply believe in photos. I do have friends who married from meeting someone online, but they actually met each other in person after a long communication and feel that they have finally found the right person.

SPAMMER/SCAM is known on all dating site, same as your received Fake Paypal Payment, or Fake Bank of American sent to your mail box (JUNK emails)

The best way to keep yourself safe is DON'T believe people online when they talk to you about MONEY becuase it does not make sense.

Please report me on username who SPAM/SCAM on this site....

DISCUSS THIS ISSUE GO TO FORUM OR LEAVE COMMENT HERE

Ms. Nice Guy - "Tickets to the boxing match? Oh, darling, you shouldn't have!"
Also known as: Whattagal, Precious, one of the boys, My Main Squeeze, Doormat
Advantages: Cheerful, agreeable, kindly
Disadvantages: May wise up someday

Old Yeller - "You spineless good-for-nothing drag-arse no-talent son of a bitch! Can't you see you're making me miserable??"
Also known as: She-Devil, Sourpuss, the Nag, My Old Lady, Warthog from Hell
Advantages: Pays attention to you
Disadvantages: Screeches, throws frying pans

Sickly - "Oh, my head. My head. My feet. My cramps. My cellulite."
Also known as: Whiner, Mewler, Grumpy
Advantages: Predictable Disadvantages: Contagious

The Bosser - "Stand up straight. Put on a different tie. Get a haircut. Change your job. Make some money. Don't give me that look."
Also known as: Whipcracker, The Sarge, Ms. Know-it-all, Ball and Chain, Yes Mom
Advantages: Often right
Disadvantages: Often right, but so what?

Ms. Vaguely Dissatisfied - "I just can't decide. Should I switch my career, goals, home, and hair color?"
Also known as: The Fretter, Worrywart, Typical, Aw C'mon Honey
Advantages: Easily soothed
Disadvantages: Even more easily perturbed

Wild Woman out of Control - "I've got an idea. Lez get drunk an' make love onna front lawn. I done it before. S'fun."
Also known as: Fast Girl, Freewheeler, Goodtime Charleena, Passed Out
Advantages: More fun than a barrel of monkeys
Disadvantages: Unreliable; drives off cliffs

Huffy - "I see nothing humorous in those silly cartoons you keep snickering at."
Also known as: No Fun, Humorless Prig, Cold fish, Chilly Proposition, Iceberg, Snarly
Advantages: Your friends will feel sorry for you
Disadvantages: You will have no friends

Woman from Mars - "I believe this interpretive dance will explain how I feel about our relationship."
Also known as: The Babbler, Spooky Girl, Screwball, Loony, Bad News, Artistic
Advantages: Entertaining, unfathomable
Disadvantages: Will read her poetry aloud

Ms. Dreamgirl - "I am utterly content with you just the way you are, my handsome genius of a boyfriend. I think we must make love like crazed weasels now!"
Also known as: Ms. Right, Goddess, Knockout, Perfection, Gorgeous
Advantages: Funny, intelligent, uninhibited
Disadvantages: Will have nothing to do with you.

Snappy Comebacks to "Why aren't you married yet?"

1. You haven't asked yet.
2. I was hoping to do something meaningful with my life.
3. What? And spoil my great sex life?
4. Nobody would believe me in white.
5. Cause I just love hearing this question.
6. Just lucky, I guess.
7. It gives my mother something to live for.
8. My fiancee is awaiting his/her parole.
9. I'm still hoping for a shot at Miss/Mr. America.
10. Do you know how hard it is to get two tickets to Miss Saigon?
11. I'm waiting until I get to be your age.
12. It didn't seem worth a blood test.
13. I already have enough laundry to do, thank you.
14. Because I think it would take all the spontaneity out of dating.
15. My co-op board doesn't allow spouses.
16.I'd have to forfeit my billion dollar trust fund.
17. They just opened a great singles bar on my block.
18. I wouldn't want my parents to drop dead from sheer happiness.
19. I guess it just goes to prove that you can't trust those voodoo doll rituals.
20. What? And lose all the money I've invested in running personal ads?
21. We really want to, but my lover's spouse just won't go for it.
22. I don't want to have to support another person on my paycheck.
23. Why aren't you thin?
24. I'm married to my career, although recently we have been considering a trial separation.
25. (Bonus reply for Single Mothers) Because having a husband and a child would be redundant.

Small case debate about dating online


Many people against dating online and we saw that on TV in many countries issue;

- How you date someone in the cable or wireless?
- Why aren’t you dating someone real instead of the monitor!
- He could be a serial killer on the other line.
- That could be her fake photo and she could be a guy scamming you for money.
- And so on.


Yes, internet dating has some limitation but the prospect of reaching everywhere in every country is a new concept and thanks to the World Wide Web. Technology from US military or CIA since the ’60 and then released to us to make website from serious news of war to adult porn to dating online.

People who not open mind about dating online is understandable. Many people use dating online hunting for their new love or mistress even before they got divorced! The real purposes of dating site are plain and simple, but millions of people use those for any purposes are uncontrollable and it’s the nature of the web.

Dating online work and I have good experiences as well as met lots of success people who dated online.

WHY? Because we already checked out or dated people we had known from friends of friends, friends at work, neighbor near your house, club and bar. Maybe even include anyone we could spot as interesting at radius near your home or workplace and supermarket already.

If any people think online dating is weird then he/she probably dating someone not too far from her supermarket driving distant, LOL. Some people like me don’t have such luxury for many people I know work directly with internet 17 hours a day or a book author, magazine editor and many career that work from home which mean limited human contact and rely more on phone, fax, email.

Sometime, someone you’re looking for simply just live in a different zip code, so thinking I have to date someone near me to make sense is obsolete.

Online dating allow you to look up zip code anyway so if you want to date someone across 8000 miles or make sure he/she will live within your area, you can do so.

It’s just another choice!

Money scam online! More reason you should protect your private email

So, I heard and got reported from quite a few members of “money scam”. Starting off from beautiful girls photo then sweet email and touch with money asking.


You’re smart so if you know then block the list. I rather you blocked them than suspend them and not because I agree that they should be able to ask for money.

I did suspend them anyway.

A true funny story:


A friend of mine use to communicate with a girl online (I don’t want to mention which nationality)… then he thought he was going to fall in love for she’s young and beautiful.

After long contact, she messaged him that she need “eye surgery money” or “she could go blind”… how sad?

He replied “My dear, you are so beautiful and I’m sure you can get by with one eye”.

LOL… so if you received money scam, please report me and don’t get so serious about it

Teach only love for that is what you are.
***** A Course In Miracles

Everyone admits that love is wonderful and necessary, yet no one agrees on just what it is.
***** Diane Ackerman

There is a law that man should love his neighbor as himself. In a few hundred years it should be as natural to mankind as breathing or the upright gait; but if he does not learn it he must perish.
***** Alfred Adler

Love - THE FEELING - is a fruit of love, the verb.
*****Stephen R. Covey American Speaker, Trainer, Author

Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.
***** Joan Crawford 1904-1977, American Actress

Love touched her heart, and lo! It beats high, and burns with such brave hearts.
***** Richard Crawshaw

Love is the extra effort we make in our dealings with those whom we do not like and once you understand that, you understand all. This idea that love overtakes you is nonsense. This is but a polite manifestation of sex. To love another you have to undertake some fragment of their destiny.
***** Quentin Crisp 1908-, British Author

I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
***** Roy Croft

Men and women are not free to love decently until they have analyzed themselves completely and swept away every mystery from sex; and this means the acquisition of a profound philosophical theory based on wide reading of anthropology and enlightened practice.
***** Aleister Crowley 1875-1947, British Occultist

Love is a great beautifier.
**** Louisa May Alcott 1832-1888, American Author

The Impossible Generalized Man today is the critic who believes in loving those unworthy of love as well as those worthy --yet believes this only insofar as no personal risk is entailed. Meaning he loves no one, worthy or no. This is what makes him impossible.
**** Nelson Algren 1909-1981, American Author

Sex alleviates tension. Love causes it.
**** Woody Allen

I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox.
**** Woody Allen

Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves.
**** Henri Frederic Amiel 1821-1881, Swiss Philosopher, Poet, Critic

In real love you want the other person's good. In romantic love, you want the other person.
**** Margaret Anderson

The more connections you and your lover make, not just between your bodies, but between your minds, your hearts, and your souls, the more you will strengthen the fabric of your relationship, and the more real moments you will experience together.
**** Barbara De Angelis

Love's greatest gift is its ability to make everything it touches sacred.
**** Barbara De Angelis

Love is a force more formidable than any other. It is invisible -- it cannot be seen or measured, yet it is powerful enough to transform you in a moment, and offer you more joy than any material possession could.
**** Barbara De Angelis

There is love of course. And then there's life, its enemy.
**** Jean Anouilh 1910-1987, French Playwright

Well-ordered self-love is right and natural.
**** St. Thomas Aquinas 1225-1274, Italian Scholastic Philosopher and Theologian

Love is made by two people, in different kinds of solitude. It can be in a crowd, but in an oblivious crowd.
*** Louis Aragon 1897-1982, French Poet

Love is, above all, the gift of oneself.
Jean Anouilh Ardele

Oh, love is real enough; you will find it someday, but it has one archenemy -- and that is life.
*** Jean Anouilh Ardele

Love, by its very nature, is unworldly, and it is for this reason rather than its rarity that it is not only apolitical but anti-political, perhaps the most powerful of all anti-political human forces.
*** Hannah Arendt 1906-1975, German-born American Political Philosopher

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.
*** Aristotle

Wicked men obey from fear; good men, from love.
*** Aristotle

In a great romance, each person plays a part the other really likes.
*** Elizabeth Ashley American Actress

We must love one another or die.
*** W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet

We are not commanded (or forbidden) to love our mates, our children, our friends, our country because such affections come naturally to us and are good in themselves, although we may corrupt them. We are commanded to love our neighbor because our ''natural'' attitude toward the ''other'' is one of either indifference or hostility.
*** W. H. Auden 1907-1973, Anglo-American Poet

A false enchantment can all too easily last a lifetime.
** W. H. Auden

What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.
** St. Augustine 354-430, Numidian-born Bishop of Hippo, Theologian

Love, and do what you like.
** St. Augustine

Love is the beauty of the soul.
** St. Augustine

God loves each of us as if there were only one of us.
** St. Augustine

What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels.
** St. Augustine

Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart.
* * Marcus Aurelius 121-80 AD, Roman Emperor, Philosopher

Not all of us have to possess earthshaking talent. Just common sense and love will do.
* * Myrtle Auvil

And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment.
* * Philippians 1:9

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear.
* * Bible

Keep me as the apple of the eye, hide me under the shadow of thy wings.
* * Bible

A temporary insanity curable by marriage.
* * Ambrose Bierce 1842-1914, American Author